What Is Your Agenda?

Meaning what you say vs. just saying it.

I am sick and tired to people saying and doing things just to get some persons approval. Why do they take part in this behavior? My opinion is that they are very insecure and without any confidence. In order to find this confidence they suck up to the people in their lives. They agree or say what they what to hear just for the person to agree with them. By getting the person to agree with them they feel confident in themselves and what they have just said so it becomes their personal truth or actually believe what they have just said...because of that self-confidence boost. To them pleasing other people for self benefit is like a drug. It fuels their confidence and takes away from their insecurity.

Tell people HOW IT REALLY IS they will respect you for it. They don't want to hear sugar plums and rainbows all the time. Be real. Be real to yourself and those around you. Mean what you tell people, forget about what you think they want to hear. Stop putting yourself first when it hurts others. There is a time and place to put yourself first, but not at the cost of hurting other people.